Impressions of China, Part 2: Dining

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Moving on to a happier subject, I’d like to describe what it’s like to eat in a restaurant in Beijing. To make a long story short, it’s fantastic, but here is the long story.

In any nice resturant, each chair has a pillowcase-like thing; one wraps one’s jacket on the back of the chair, as usual, and then one puts the pillowcase thing over the jacket and the chair’s back. This way there is no risk of food spilling on the jacket, and the whole setup is quite aesthetically pleasing.

As we do this, a waiter or waitress, usually the latter, brings one menu to the table, and waits for us to order.

One menu is brought regardless of the size of the party, and when I say menu I don’t mean a half-page minimalist listing of three or four choices per course one may find in the US, the fewer choices the more upscale is the restaurant (culminating in the choiceless prix-fixe menu of downstairs Chez Panisse). I mean a whole booklet, featuring ambiguous pictures and captions. (“Is this fish?” “I don’t know, it’s called ‘delicious three-cooked stew’ on the menu, and to me it looks more like mushrooms.” “But isn’t that the character for ‘pork’?” and so on.)

The waitress will hand over the one menu, and stand there, awaiting for an immediate order. A party of six westerners, say, is going to order ten courses, and each course is going to be discussed (and guessed about) by all six, for a total of at least 60 steps. In one episode, a party of eight took 25 minutes to complete the order (the waitress never budged from the side of the table).

After a short while, the dishes start coming. Except the rice, however. For reasons that no westerner understands, rice is almost never brought to the table when ordered; one needs to ask for it again, sometime three times, and it finally arrives in tiny cups which I finish halfway through the meal.

It could, of course, be worse. At the Little Sheep hotpot restaurant, known for its cumin-flavored soup base, we ordered rice and I noticed the waitress wrote nothing. Then we asked again and the waitress nodded. Then we asked a third time, and finally she said


“we are out of rice.” Out of rice? In a Chinese restaurant? In CHINA? Do you ever go to an Italian restaurant only to be told, sorry, we are out of pasta?

This brings me to another surprising discovery: except on some University Campuses, there are no laundromats in Beijing and there are no laundry stores which will wash and fold clothes by weight. (This has been a bigger surprise than when I moved to San Francisco and I was told that fortune cookies were invented there.) There are, however, dry-cleaning operations, but they are quite expensive by local standards. Recommendation to visitors planning an extended stay in China: bring (or buy) plenty of clothes.

Returning to dining, one has to plead for rice, but it is even harder to get napkins. Very upscale restaurants have cloth napkins which the waitresses pin under your plate so that they hang over the side of the table and your leg. Wiping your face with them feels uncomfortably close to doing so with the tablecloth and appears to not be done. Less fancy places may give a wet cloth to wipe your hands and, upon request, give postage-stamp-size paper napkins. I have taken to always bring a pack of kleenex when I go for dinner. (It should be noted that the combination of no laundry, no napkins, and eating splashy things with chopsticks can be stressful.)

People like to eat early in Beijing, with most restaurants officially closing at 10pm, but often having no customers but us by 9pm or so. At this point, subtle hints are offered that we are overstaying our welcome. Lights are dimmed in other sections of the restaurant, we are told that the kitchen is closing and if we want anything else, we are asked to pay, the kitchen staff comes out to eat, they start washing the floors. In at least one case, the waiters and kitchen staff finished eating and left, leaving behind a couple of waiters to look after us, and we kept eating in the darkened place. Only once, however, (and not in the above episode) were we ever explicitly asked to leave.


7 thoughts on “Impressions of China, Part 2: Dining

  1. The reason restaurants in China don’t want to serve you rice is that, in China, rice is considered a food for poor people only, and the restaurant is trying to impress its customers, particularly foreigners, by how “upper-class” it is, and hence no rice. At least, that’s what I was told the one time I was in China and had the same experience.

  2. “Wiping your face with them feels uncomfortably close to doing so with the tablecloth and appears to not be done.”

    Hrmfff, why did no one tell me before?

    Next thing, you’ll tell me that I’m supposed to fill other people’s cups before I fill mine, or that I should wait for everyone to sit down before I start eating.

    Table manners are for the weak. Like hygiene and seatbelts. And, as you know ,the Chinese are on my side in this ;).

  3. About the no-napkins thing: I don’t know if China is similar, but speaking as an Indian, I can tell you that in general, washing is preferred over wiping. (Possibly a cold climate v/s hot climate cultural difference :P)
    At least if you go to a restaurant in India and find no napkins, it’s because one is expected to wash one’s hands (etc.) after the meal. (And conversely, I was horrified (and still am) to come to the US and discover restaurants (and even some “restrooms”!) which don’t have a facility for washing hands and expect you to be satisfied with some wiping.)

  4. anonymous #3: difficult but managable. There’s a market in essentially every blockor two, selling a large variety of vegetables and stuff at low prices. Tofu and such are easy to get. About hi-tec vegetarianism, U.S. style, that hasn’t reached Beijing (yet?). So if you cook in, you have no problems.

    If you want to eat out, and you’re not a strict vegetarian, you can find stuff in a normal restaurant (however, it is safe to assume that many things are fried in oils that contain meat, so it really depends how vegetarian you are). There are vegeterian restaurants, but not many. Try “Pure Lotus” when you’re around (it’s very expesnvie, but the best veggie food I ever ate).

  5. For the non-rice in the Little Sheep hotpot restaurant: usually in a hotpot restaurant, no rice is served. People in China do not eat rice when they eat hotpot. Instead you can order noodles, which is very good. 🙂

  6. Most apartment/condo/house in China have on-site laundry. No one will go to public laundry store as it is considered as dirty by Chinese standard. You don’t need to worry about that.

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